As one of the registered members one the largest threesome dating apps, tinder for threesomes and tinder for couples, I did realize how hard it is for swingers who are living a swinging lifestyle to plan a good threesome, especially for those first timers. Even though it is hard, but there are still some useful tips for you to conduct a good threesome.
Find a platform that suits you
The very first problem we encounter when it comes to planning a swingers lifestyle is to find a compatible three way partner, and there are a few ways for you to choose. First of all, turn to the powerful internet! With the booming development of internet and online dating websites, the online sites catering to the swingers who are into tinder threesome dating, bisexual dating, kinky dating as well as polyamorous dating are on the rise. Thus the a mass amount of threesome online dating sites come to the fore with the purpose of meeting the need of women seeking couples as well as couples seeking women. The advantage of threesome dating apps and websites is that you can put yourself in a huge platform consisting hundreds of thousands of like minded people who are interested in wife threesome and wife sharing. For those who prefer face to face interactions, going to the local bar would be a nice choice since it allows you to get the very first impression of your potential three way couples in person.
Get to know your third and set the rules
The second step is the most important one because how good your threesome experience would be depends on it. Unlike any kind of random hook up where you don’t need to build a connection with your partner before the bedroom business, threesome is different. Because there is another party involved, things can get much more complicated than you think. It will be harder to keep the emotional balance between your two partners. Thus you will need to get to know them first and set the ground rules in order to prevent all the potential risks from happening. The key is to make sure that three of you are on the same page. For example, things between you guys won’t work out if one wants a open relationship which actually requires emotional investment however the rest two want nothing more than an intimate physical relationship.
Make efforts in bed
Keeping yourself entertained is of great importance, so does keeping your partners entertained. And having a threesome can easily lead to the result that one person feels being left out. To avoid that from happening, all the three parties need to make efforts to ensure that everyone is having fun. I know that it probably sounds dull because having fun sounds like having nothing to do with making efforts, but once you get there, you will know that you can have fun while making other people happy at the same time.