I had several girlfriends in my life, but not after 20s. I could be turned on by them as well. My sexual life with them was just fine and nothing different from any other straight guys, until I had a couples dating with my last girlfriend. From then on, my gay nature was unleashed like a beast and it would never go back to the cage.
We went to a bar with a mutual male friend of us and had a lot of drinks there. Everyone was high and crazy. As we getting more drinks, crazy ideas occurred in our mind as well. We started to fool around with each other. Since we were still in the bar, in public places, things were held back a little. First, it was just touching and occasionally kissing between the guys and the girl. After everyone was turned on, we agreed that we would go to a hotel and continue the party.
We went to a hotel nearby and our three way party started officially. First, the other guy and me were just focusing on my girlfriend and made no contact with each other. Then my girlfriend suggested that if we would try and make out with each other. I knew that he was bisexual, but to me, making out with guys was still an unfamiliar subject. I hesitated, but I would like to give it a shot and see what it is like. I let the other guy kissed me on the lips. To my surprises, it turned me on right away, even harder than with my girlfriend. But I couldn’t still handle it very well. So in my first time kissing a guy, I behaved reservedly.
After that time, I finally found out the truth about myself being homosexual. The feelings towards girls were also fading away as it grows towards guys. It was very strange, even from my own thinking. Having a tinder for couples hookup totally changed my life. I know even if I didn’t have that threesome, I would have turned gay some day in other ways. That is just who I really am.